🌺 20 Things I Learned Before Turning 20 🌺

      Heyyyy lovesss❤️, It’s been two months since I stepped into my twenties, and honestly, I didn’t want to let this little milestone pass without writing something down for myself. Someday, when I look back on this blog, I want to remember the things that shaped me before 20, the small lessons, the quiet realizations, the mistakes, and the little victories. This is my reminder to my future self: here’s everything I’ve learned so far.

🌷 20 Lessons I Carry With Me

1. Confidence isn’t about being loud it’s about being comfortable in your own skin.

2. A graceful walk and good posture speak louder than words.

3. People will come and go and that’s okay.

4. Skincare is worth more than hiding behind makeup.

5. Friendships should feel like peace, not pressure.

6. Clothes are self-expression, not just fabric.

7. Saying no doesn’t make me rude.

8. My body deserves love: eat, rest, and move with care.

9. Romanticizing the little things makes life magical.

10. Exams and grades don’t define my worth.

11. Books, music, and walks heal in ways arguments never can.

12. Sometimes silence is the strongest reply.

13. Family may not be perfect, but they’re irreplaceable.

14. Saving money is self-care for the future.

15. It’s okay to feel lost ,clarity will come.

16. Compliments mean nothing if I don’t believe in myself first.

17. Beauty has no fixed definition , every form is beautiful.

18. Dreams take time; I don’t have to rush.

19. Small joys like ice cream, sunsets, dressing up

are what really stay.

20. I don’t need to have it all figured out life is meant to be lived, not solved.

Writing this down feels like leaving a letter for myself, one I can return to when I forget how far I’ve come. My twenties don’t have to be perfect they just need to be real, honest, and full of growth.

And if I could leave myself with one little reminder, it would be this👆🏻. 

✨ “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.” – Coco Chanel